This Charmed Memories® Mother and Child® heart mother's bead can be personalized with an engraving and the round birthstones of your choice. Most natural gemstones pictured have been subject to an enhancement process or treatment (e.g. heating, oiling, diffusion, waxing, etc.), which may not be permanent and may require special care. Generally, most treated gemstone jewelry should only be gently cleaned by rinsing in warm water and dried with a soft cloth. Please refer to the FAQ section below for more information about gemstone enhancements and special care recommendations.